Have you ever wondered why sometimes you will think about something, wishing it was available to you, only to find by some mysterious, serendipitous means, it finds you? That is the sort of response this book has been getting by people around the world. Ive received email after email from people, just like you, who have thanked me for writing this book. I cannot tell you how meaningful this has been to me personally. It is astonishing to think that just seven or eight years ago I was browsing for a book on this very topic, disappointed by most of the books I purchased. When I got home, I did my best to learn from them, but I couldnt. Finding a job still seemed to have so many unanswered questions lingering around in my head. I really wanted to know the answers to the questions I still had.